New Year, New Blog

Of course there's a big difference between people who likes to write and people who can actually write. Well I'm probably none of those two categories, I could be considered as "people who wants to write" then.

I remember when I was in elementary school and was always find trouble whenever my literature teacher give us task to write. I simply don't know where to start, but today I'm gonna write. It may sound lame in the beginning, but trust me, I have a point to be addressed.

Do you think people change?

I do.

A wise friend of mine once wrote this on his Facebook status [quoted from Mulyadi Tery FB status]

~ When a man is trying to win the heart of a woman, he studies her. He learns her likes, dislikes, habits and hobbies. But after he wins her heart and marries her, he often stops learning about her. If the amount he studied her before marriage was equal to a high school degree, he should continue to learn about her until he gains a college degree, a master's degree and ultimately a doctorate degree. It is a lifelong journey that draws his heart ever closer to hers - Caleb Holt (Fireproof) ~

Nice huh?!

I believe that is true, and it also works vice versa to the woman.

When we share our life with someone and married him/her for years, we started to think that we know everything about our partner, that could be right, but we shall not forget that people do change, when we stop to learn about the person, we may loose them.

One day, when it's too late, we will look them in the eye and ask "who are you?"

Life is short, yet so fragile, let's fill it with love and no regrets.